What are the twenty-six malignant gates, and where does the name come from?
Are Lindos ways of raising her children stereotypic to Chinese culture?
What is the art of invisible strength and does it lead to success?
Why didn’t Ying Ying’s family search for her when she fell off the boat and why didn’t they recognize her when she was there?
How did’t the four mothers raise their children differently and what were their flaws?
Why does Ying Ying criticize her daughter for being so Americanize? that is how she was raised.
In the chapter Voices From the Wall what did it mean to be pulled through the wall?
Do you think it was wrong for lindo to brag about her daughter, or did Waverly just misunderstand her mothers pride in her daughter's accomplishments?
What was the meaning of Ying Ying’s meeting the moon lady?
Do you think Waverly's struggles mirror the tragedies of Lindo? is this a statement about the relationship between mother and daughter?
What do you think the epilogue of this chapter means?
What do you think of the ending to the book? How do you think that Jing-mei was different when she was then and when she was at the beginning of the book?
Which generation of women do you like better and? Why?
Which generation of women are stronger?
What do you think of the parenting in this novel? Which mother did you like best? Which one did you dislike the most?
Who transformed in this novel and in what ways did they change?
Is there a general attitude towards men in this novel? If so, what do you think the attitude was?
If you were Jing-Mei, how well could you explain your mother to two strangers that were her previous children?
Which themes do you think were present in this story? Name 3.
What do you think of the characters’ feelings toward America? How were Americans portrayed by the characters in this book?